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Day 6 : Sincerity is the way of Salvation (الاجلاص طريق الخلاص ) by Ustadha Eman Al Obaid (HafidhaAllah)
Day 6 : Sincerity is the way of salvation
Ustadha Eman started praising Allah (swt) and sending dua for the students .
Al Ikhlaas without any desire is actually the salvation from hellfire,fitnah …yesterday we talked about how to be sincere with the love with all the people around you . You need to purify that love from the personal needs and tangible benefit . If you love for rather than Allah (swt) this love will be discontinue and no reward in the Day of Judgement and it will leads to hypocrisy .
In order to be sincere in you love you then need Taqwa , this is the healthy relationship which will last forever .The natural love will be discontinue after the person die but the sincere love is the one that continue .
Hadith :” إنَّ اللَّهَ يقولُ يومَ القيامةِ : أينَ المُتحابُّونَ بجلالي ، اليومَ أظلُّهم في ظلِّي . يومَلا ظلَّ إلَّا ظلِّي”
الراوي : أبو هريرة المحدث : مسلم ,المصدر : صحيح مسلم الصفحة أو الرقم: 2566
Abû Hurayrah relates that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Allah will ask on the Day of Judgment: ‘Where are those who loved each other for the sake of My glory? Today, – on a day when there is no shade but mine – I shall shade them with My shade.” [Sahîh Muslim (2566)]
Allah (swt) will call a special call , those who love each other by my Glory and Majesty. Imagine Allaah will shade them , they love each other and in their heart there is the love and respect of Allah (swt) . Imagine you love and respect and mother so much you will also love her friends , and the best example belongs to Allah (swt) , because you magnify Allah (swt) so much , you will love thee believers because of their believe butt ultimately because of Allah (swt) . Imagine the Day of Judgement there will be no shade except Allah (swt) shade . This shows in their life there are connected nit because their own selves ,or benefit but for Allah (swt) . No one else will have shade except those . They actually love each other because they magnify Allah (swt) .
In their heart : they magnify Allah (swt) (المتحاربون بجلالي)
In their heart they magnify Allah (swt) , they are preserving the boundaries of Allah (swt) (في قلوبهم إجلال الله مع التحاب فيه ، فهم حافظين لحدود الله ), they are the Muttaqeen . The heart is belonging to Allah (swt) .they will visit ,smile ,even eat and love for Allah (swt) . The natural love will have be reward in the Day of Judgement . The believers want to change everything as Ibadah . You magnify Allah (swt) so much so you love that person . And when you magnify Allah (swt) you I’ll not exceed your boundaries . Because some love will lead will obsession but the love for Allah (swt) make you a free person .
Those who love for the sake of Allah (swt) you love because you magnify (المتحاربون من اجلي اجلالا), when you love people that you don’t know it’s easy you can love them for Allah (swt) but for the people who are good and you know , your love can be desires so you need jihad .you must love them out of Magnificent for Allah (swt) .
And they love and seeking the pleasure of Allah (swt) ()
this is sincerity . If you want healthy and sincere relation do it for Allah (swt) .
Sometimes people love others because of their attitude , they beauty and qualities . What should make you love ???
You love because the person call for the good (تحبه لدعائه الي الخير)
You see him doing good deeds (تحبه لفطه الخير)
He teaches the Deen (تحبه لتعليمه الدين)
You don’t know anything about them but because of their good deeds . That why you should love all believes because of their faith . The love for Allah (swt) is to be close to Allah (swt) . It is also sincerity when you love the person because of their good deeds .
Because the Deen is the whole goodness (الدين جماع الخير كله فإذا احبك للدين) so if you love someone for the religion it’s as if you love Allah (swt) , just as a study circle , we are loving each other for the religion , not because of the person itself . And this love will be forever
From the love for Allah (swt) is the love of the Awliyah Allah (ومن الحب في الله حب أولياء الله) Even to love your children , we should now change this natural love for Allah (swt) and it will be balanced . Even with your family and friends . You make it now Ikhlas .
Who are they ? ( من هم) Al Muminoon and Al Muttaqeen.
The indicator of the faith is shown in your Akhlaaq , in the difficult situation , in the travel as well . One of the scholar said, if you want to take someone as a close friend , before i take it I try to make him upset , others scholar commented it saying ifnyoundomthisneveryoneneill be enemies as they won’t think far . When you will see how the person is you will see how they are with you . You don’t want a friend that account you . If you want to know anyone Akhlaq , you will know the travel and hardship . Friends never scold you ,blame you . Everyone has mistakes , but the good friend is the one who accept your mistakes .
Ibn Abbas (ra) asked Nabi (صلى الله عليه و سلام) : who are the Awliyah Allah ? He said : those if you need them you remember Allah (swt) . In general they are believers and Muttaqeen . You remember Allah (swt) because the person doing good deeds , having faith .
The awliyah Allah are(أولياء الله) :
Those how teaching the religion of Allah (swt)( المعلمون لدين الله)
Those who working with the religion of Allah (swt) (المتعاملون بدين الله )
Hadith : إن من عباد الله لأناسا ما هم بأنبياء ، ولا شهداء ، يغبطهم الأنبياء والشهداء يوم القيامة بمكانهم من الله تعالى . قالوا : يا رسول الله ، تخبرنا من هم ؟؟، قال : هم قوم تحابوا بروح الله على غير أرحام بينهم ، ولا أموال يتعاطونها ، فوالله إنوجوههم لنور ، وإنهم على نور : لا يخافون إذا خاف الناس ، ولا يحزنون إذا حزن الناس . وقرأ هذه الآية : ألا إن أولياءالله لا خوف عليهم ولا هم يحزنون
الراوي : عمر بن الخطاب المحدث : الألباني المصدر : صحيح أبي داود الصفحة أو الرقم: 3527
Narrated Umar ibn al-Khattab (r.a) : He reported the Prophet (?) as saying: There are people from the servants of Allah who are neither prophets nor martyrs; the prophets and martyrs will envy them on the Day of Resurrection for their rank from Allah, the Most High.
Those worshipper of Allah (swt) , the Messengers and Martyrs will envy those worshipper in the Day of Judgement because of their position . Who are they ?
They are those who love for Allah (swt) , meaning sincere in their love . No connection between them but they love , this is a very high position . For instance you go abroad and see someone Muslim like you or even when you go to Hajj you love the people you see .
On their face is light , they are in a light ,they will not be scared when the people are scared, and they will not grieve when the people grieve . Then Nabi (صلى الله عليه و سلام) recited :
Surah Yunus : 62
أَلَا إِنَّ أَوْلِيَاءَ اللَّهِ لَا خَوْفٌ عَلَيْهِمْ وَلَا هُمْ يَحْزَنُونَ . Now surely the friends of Allah– they shall have no fear nor shall they grieve.
Allah will give them complete security in the day of judgement .
Dear sisters (اختي الغالية)
Look at who you accompany (انظري من تواخين؟)
And who you love (ومن تحبين؟)
And why ?(لماذا)
This sincere love is the way of salvation . Whoever you love be sincere in loving them .
Day 2 : Sincerity is the way of Salvation (الاجلاص طريق الخلاص ) by Ustadha Eman Al Obaid (HafidhaAllah)
Day 2 : Sincerity is the way of salvation
Al Ikhlaas Tariq Al Khalaas day 2
Ustadha Eman started praising Allah (swt) and sending dua for the students .
Introduction: yesterday we talked about how Ikhlaas saves people.
Al ikhlas :
It is a command from Allah (swt)( امرنا الله بالإخلاص )
And Allah (swt) created us to worship Him but the command is Al Ikhlaas which need us to work hard.
That show Al Ikhlas is something very honorable and great (الاخلاص عزيز وعظيم)and that is the reason Allaah command us .
Everything you will get in this Dunya and Akhira is with Al Ikhlaas . All problem can be solved only with Al Ikhlaas .
It’s an action of the heart and the head of all actions .
Al Ikhlaas is an adornment of the heart .
Al Ikhlaas is the secret of Al Uboodiyah . And the souls of the idabah . Without Al Ikhlas it will be like a dead body .
It’s the light of the heart (الاخلاص نور في القلب) : that leads you to Ihsaan and to the success . When you try to purify all your deeds and this light give you perfection and run you will do the deeds perfectly . You are working on the quality in the deeds . The secret of the deeds and success in with Ikhlaas , that is why the success in the sight of Allah (swt) , and this is between you and Allah (swt) .
There is an hadith of Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ) : Abu Dardaa(ra) said:
“I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) saying: ‘This world is cursed and what is in it is cursed, except seeking for the Face of Allah.
If you do any deeds without Al Ikhlas it will be cursed and it will be destruction . You do not want to be cursed so have Al Ikhlaas , only if you see pk thr Face of Allah (swt) ,you will get a mercy . Even taking care of yourself . You can do it by desires , but you want the success and blessings ,so you do it for the Face of Allah (swt) , because Allah (swt) love it if you do for His sake .
Ibn Qayyum said : this is special blessing . Either you speak or no you will get the blessing .
Ibn Qaayum also said : any deeds without Al Ikhlaas and an example is like a traveller filling his luggage with sand . We always want to travel very light . But there is difference while traveling clothes or with sand which is very heavy . When you do a deeds without Al Ikhlas it just make you tired and there is no benefit . And what we are doing is Talaluf , burden , no Ikhlas for your oneself or people .We are learning it to upgrade ourselves . We want quality deeds .
He also said : deeds without sincerity is like a building above the waves . Anything will break it . Example your friendship is for yourself or Dunya .you are not having a friendship based on Dunya , you will see any test will happen it will shake and it won’t be stable . Do it for Allah (swt) and it will last till paradise and you will enjoy it . Anything you will do with Ikhlaas ,because you want to be close to Allah (swt) ,then it will be a stable relationship .if you don’t do for Allah (swt) it will not be stable .it will be like Dunya , something that come and go .thats why Allah (swt) says I’m Surah. ArRahman , everything eill pursing except the Face of Allah (swt) . If you see any shaking then ask yourself if you are doing it for Allah (swt) .
How to have Al Ikhlas ???
We are following the book Al Ikhlaas Tariq Al khalaas , and the author chosed the main important things where you need Al Ikhlas , he started with Al Ikhlaas in the seeking of knowledge .
Why he started with this ? Because it’s very dangerous if in seeking knowledge there is no Ikhlas . If in seeking knowledge there is no Ikhlas it can be a destruction.
Free yourself from from anything which can effect the knowledge(خلص نفسك من كل ما يشوب العلم )
From the desire of yourself : from all what the Nafs wants (إرادات النفس)
Love if being apparent ( حب الظهور) for people to see you
Wanting to be above than people (التفق علي الأقران) either your husband or anyone .
Seeking praise (طلب محددة) either you get the praise or no , you do the deeds because you seek the praise
Direct the face of people to you (صرف وجوه الناس إليك) you want people to look at you , to see what you are doing , it’s a destruction . It can destroy the knowledge . Knowledge is weapon to go to paradise . If you don’t have Ikhlas it will be rocket that will explode .
People respect (تعظيم الناس) you look for the respect , we need to check our hearts ,. It’s better to stop learning . And if you leave it it won’t be also for Allah (swt) . This is how you do struggling for Allah (swt) . The real jihad is about Al Ikhlas .
To get some position and benefit (تحصيل الرياسة و الجاهل المال) you nee to relive yourself form it ,position ,worldly things .
Imagine you look for all this the knowledge will not last . Seeing knowledge is a bridge to go paradise , it will make easy your way to paradise . Anything with Al Ikhlas will continue and without it will be discontinued .
Ikhlaas when seeking knowledge
Your focus should be for the Face of Allah (swt) , and it will be completed till you die and you will see it in the Day of Judgement .you will get the light and you will have sweetness of the faith (الفصد وحه و تنوير قلبه وتحليه باطنه )
For the seeker of knowledge they are enjoying , they will not find it difficult . But without Ikhlas ,by doing for the teacher , my friend and people ..
And you will be close to Allah (swt) (القرب من الله يوم القيامة )
May Allah (swt) help us to overcome our weakness . Amen